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Like wtf just happened? lol
Like wtf just happened? lol Man things keep getting , I can't say weird but sure get confusing on this site..Been talking off and on to a seemingly nice chap who said he was viewing my profile alot, and i seen he was almost every time i was on here ..Said he was a bit shy , and i dont mind shy . I don't altogether trust many people on here especially guys who show too much enthusiasm and have to continually ask personal questions and too focused on sex. Hey come on there is way more to a woman than sex...she likes to at least hear that and there is nothing wrong with decent conversation... Now this guy is local and i totally was pleased with that , so cool finally...and he said he read my profile which specifically states fwb because of my disability..Now sure i realize most men do want a woman who is complete and whole ..I been around awhile and am not a dummy when it comes to the whole scene..I am not a first draft pick and my age and disability is going against me ..sigh! We chatted and he said he was cool with me and what i was asking for..He kind of hinted that if we met and clicked he did want sex right away ...Told him i couldnt promise him that right away , he said ok ..so i figured he was ok with that , now at this point i had no face pic of him he said he wanted to meet without that aspect..told him i wasnt too keen on that but we could meet...So today was the day we set to meet at 1 pm near town Woke up came on here and the message read as follows.." sorry to have to do this on such short notice , but i have to meet someone in Halifax and i wont be able to meet you because this other meeting sounds promising..I hope you meet someone that is right for you.."Like wtf? I left a not so nice message back...and i am not a poor loser because the fact i said i couldnt make any promise i would jump between the sheets, hoping he would get whats coming to him and not in a good way...called him an asshole and dropped any messages ...Now if his " new meet " works out he has to drive prob an hour as opposed to 20 minutes..Fuck head? yep major one indeed.. Thanks for listening. |
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8/1/2019 4:35 am |
Baa baa sheep sheep...lead me to the edge of the cliff so i can kick you the hell off!!
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Not even a rant...just a reasonable point of view from you. Fellow clearly wasn't looking for much more than 20min.
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8/1/2019 4:44 am |
I'm so sorry to hear about the really quite horrible experience you have just had. I totally agree with your reactions to this. A real bummer. Hang in there & take care.
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I am so sorry to hear. I insist on face pic exchange prior to meeting, if they can not do that we will not meet. By now a red flag for me. Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Have a great day, big hugs.
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sorry to hear..........unpleasant massage
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8/1/2019 5:09 am |
Not even a rant...just a reasonable point of view from you. Fellow clearly wasn't looking for much more than 20min.
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8/1/2019 5:09 am |
Same thing has happened a lot with this old man here. Shame we are not located closer, we could compare notes and stories, maybe even hit it off, as we seem to be looking for pretty much the same things. Seems my contacts are always looking for much more right out of the gate and I'm a bit too slow for them, I need to know someone before serious things happen.
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The good news is he showed his cards before the meet. He would not show a pic so he is asshole ugly. He is only after a quick fuck and would probably never show up again. He thinks he found something better. Bet she rejects his ugly ass. Here’s hoping. And will probably sniff around again after she dumps him. I think you came out the winner in this.
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8/1/2019 5:10 am |
I'm so sorry to hear about the really quite horrible experience you have just had. I totally agree with your reactions to this. A real bummer. Hang in there & take care.
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8/1/2019 5:11 am |
I am so sorry to hear. I insist on face pic exchange prior to meeting, if they can not do that we will not meet. By now a red flag for me. Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Have a great day, big hugs.
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8/1/2019 5:12 am |
sorry to hear..........unpleasant massage
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8/1/2019 5:14 am |
Same thing has happened a lot with this old man here. Shame we are not located closer, we could compare notes and stories, maybe even hit it off, as we seem to be looking for pretty much the same things. Seems my contacts are always looking for much more right out of the gate and I'm a bit too slow for them, I need to know someone before serious things happen.
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8/1/2019 5:16 am |
The good news is he showed his cards before the meet. He would not show a pic so he is asshole ugly. He is only after a quick fuck and would probably never show up again. He thinks he found something better. Bet she rejects his ugly ass. Here’s hoping. And will probably sniff around again after she dumps him. I think you came out the winner in this.
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8/1/2019 5:19 am |
You dodged a bullet it seems. Hey, let him have his "promising" encounter. He was only looking for a sure thing. My guess is, if the meet went well, he feared you making his eyes rolling back into his head and speaking gibberish. LOL I get what you are saying. You make a commitment and stick with it. Patience. Something we lack nowadays. Like these Offer Up folk. Be there in 10 minutes, arrive and they sold it knowing you were a few minutes out. Might be some cosmic event at play but usually it wasn't meant to be and I do find a better one at a better price shortly thereafter. I dare bet that if this other person was a member here as well, I don't suspect there will be a testimonial posted highlighting their encounter. Muhahaaaa.
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8/1/2019 5:20 am |
Thanks sweetheart and i stand by my convictions as to being a disabled person and being honest right from the jump so people know its not an issue to me and if they have a problem with this its their problem...thanks
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8/1/2019 5:23 am |
You dodged a bullet it seems. Hey, let him have his "promising" encounter. He was only looking for a sure thing. My guess is, if the meet went well, he feared you making his eyes rolling back into his head and speaking gibberish. LOL I get what you are saying. You make a commitment and stick with it. Patience. Something we lack nowadays. Like these Offer Up folk. Be there in 10 minutes, arrive and they sold it knowing you were a few minutes out. Might be some cosmic event at play but usually it wasn't meant to be and I do find a better one at a better price shortly thereafter. I dare bet that if this other person was a member here as well, I don't suspect there will be a testimonial posted highlighting their encounter. Muhahaaaa.
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sounds like he was the loser in this ,,not a very bright person , meeting someone to see if you have attraction is key to good sex , if you are just doing it for sex. well then you will not have a enjoyable life maybe a moment but nothing more.
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Good vibes and trust and honesty, helps ,but no one doe it
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8/1/2019 5:41 am |
Sorry to hear. But yes you probably dodged a bullet! Screw that guy...and not ina good way! Plenty more of us cool guys out there! Move on!
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He is a first class boor!!! How rude to let you know in a message right before the 1 pm selected time. Asshat- well, maybe that is doing asshats an injustice. Good thing the true colors showed up now.I was gong to say "screw him" but you didnt get that chance( smirk). There is someone out there that is honest and has manners- torment is too good (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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8/1/2019 5:52 am |
you are clearly better off without having to waste any more of your time on him
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8/1/2019 5:54 am |
sounds like he was the loser in this ,,not a very bright person , meeting someone to see if you have attraction is key to good sex , if you are just doing it for sex. well then you will not have a enjoyable life maybe a moment but nothing more.
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8/1/2019 5:55 am |
Good vibes and trust and honesty, helps ,but no one doe it
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8/1/2019 5:57 am |
Sorry to hear. But yes you probably dodged a bullet! Screw that guy...and not ina good way! Plenty more of us cool guys out there! Move on!
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8/1/2019 6:00 am |
He is a first class boor!!! How rude to let you know in a message right before the 1 pm selected time. Asshat- well, maybe that is doing asshats an injustice. Good thing the true colors showed up now.I was gong to say "screw him" but you didnt get that chance( smirk). There is someone out there that is honest and has manners- torment is too good
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8/1/2019 6:01 am |
you are clearly better off without having to waste any more of your time on him
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Its happens to us all. Will probably happen again at some point. U have invested time in getting to know him....and for most of us. females....that very fact creates major disappointment., when they turn out to be idiots. The good news is that, you wont invest any more feeling with him.....cuz he clearly doesnt have a clue. ~~
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I bet he is going to meet Molly.
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MollyLove1
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8/1/2019 11:55 am |
MollyLove1
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8/1/2019 11:57 am |
yeah i know and you know since you guys have responded so well to the post its a great feeling to actually see that i am not the only one it does happen to..i been stood up so many times i cannot remember the count ..Thanx from the bottom of my heart... : ))))
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8/1/2019 11:59 am |
Its happens to us all. Will probably happen again at some point. U have invested time in getting to know him....and for most of us. females....that very fact creates major disappointment., when they turn out to be idiots. The good news is that, you wont invest any more feeling with him.....cuz he clearly doesnt have a clue. ~~
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I guess the silver lining is that you actually heard from him-even if to blow you off. Most men would just ghost. He saved you in the long run from wasting your time. Still a dick move though lol I have no effing clue where I'm going and what I'm saying Vixn_Vella Its not me....It's you. And no...we cannot be friends
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I think you got lucky that you didn't waste time on that asshat. You are better than that. Don't let that loser affect you at all, it is his loss.
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Guy is a douche. Just another idiot thinking with his dick. I agree with the others.... you dodged a bullet. Be glad! NEVER lower the bar! If a man cannot meet the bar, then he's not worth your time. Your value is NEVER determined by anyone else! Ever. I'd block him and allow him to wonder what he missed.....
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8/2/2019 3:20 pm |
I am not 100% in agreement with that but i will say i did thank him for contacting me to tell me that but ....and this is a big butt...I dropped a couple meets just to accomodate him and his time he says is limited as is mine to meet him...he made the time and place and to me that is an obligation to actually meet and man up nuts to honor that appointment? meet ..open communication is great when its warranted but to drop someone from a meet because of better ? fuck no i dont agree he was a man in that case...its a brazen and ignorant person that does this to any woman...Is better really better? I am as good as the next person and dont settle for scraps so i dont think someone else should ..and to drive an hour and half to get laid? lol how is that finding better?
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8/2/2019 3:23 pm |
I think you got lucky that you didn't waste time on that asshat. You are better than that. Don't let that loser affect you at all, it is his loss.
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8/2/2019 3:26 pm |
Guy is a douche. Just another idiot thinking with his dick. I agree with the others.... you dodged a bullet. Be glad! NEVER lower the bar! If a man cannot meet the bar, then he's not worth your time. Your value is NEVER determined by anyone else! Ever. I'd block him and allow him to wonder what he missed.....
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8/2/2019 5:06 pm |
Point taken filed away and thanks for the comment ...I dont argue to make a point but its still rude to not at least meet and judge from there instead of hounding me at every corner and making me feel good only to do what he done..still should have kept the meet it would have only taken a second to say he wasnt interested......thanks
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8/3/2019 7:26 am |
Sorry to hear, hang in there!
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for what it is worth I am a 53 yo man. I just read your post and I DO think you are a first draft pick. Very sexy to me!
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sounds like a reasonable "rant". I understand you being upset
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Men can be cruel hu. You must hang in there get pics and try again
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sorry to hear
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Sorry to hear that, but as the others mentioned probably you dodged a bullet there. hopefully he drove an hour only to find a nice hairy dude waiting for him
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8/17/2019 2:25 pm |
Deliciousss body! ! ! !
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8/20/2019 1:59 am |
I wish people would do this more often. So not worth your time and effort and weeding themselves out before you have spent time and money on them. Its a shitty thing it happened but better this way than a date the promise of more and then ghosting
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8/22/2019 11:26 am |
Yes stick to us nice single guys .....
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I dunno if my chat is working or not. Haven’t had a IM response in 2 months. But who knows lol
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8/26/2019 6:20 pm |
life is an experience
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