Having been married for 11 years, I'm finding that the utter lack of passion and excitement in my relationship and especially in the bedroom is becoming a real mental drag in my life. While I'm still young and full of vigor, I hate to be missing out on something I love almost more than anything. I'm 39, fun-loving, successful, in good shape, 5'9", cute-looking, and LOVE to please. I know a lot of men in the same predicament as me and I have even been approached by some in my circle...it's just too close to home. I like the anonymity of AFF and thought I'd try this out. I'm not an undersexed freak and in no huge hurry. I have no intention of sending my face pics, we can meet over coffee when we are both ready and go from there. I don't want to lose what I have, but really need an adventure. I want to feel the excitement touching and feeling what I think about a lot of times! 😉 Wd prefer guyd in a similar situation...not looking to change or break anything, but have enough to lose that I don't feel a threat. Discretion is SO critical!. I'm not looking to get off one time and run. Let's chat a bit, exchange some thoughts and see where it goes. If nothing else, the fun of getting to know someone new, even if online, is really appealing to me right now. I could use a distraction.

My Ideal Person For us to have a connection, there must be atleast some mutual physical attraction .

Have you ever had cybersex?:
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