Hello, My wife and I are experimenting with an open relationship. She's gone through menopause and, though she's fit and healthy in every way thankfully, she did quite lose interest in a lot of physical intimacy. She has kindly suggested I find intimacy and affection 'out there' in the world. I am: • 5'8", 140 lbs. • A social drinker. Are the stars aligned? R [COLOR blue][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person I'm thinking there must be a lady out there who fits this description:

• A lady who wants a regular exchange of back / shoulder rubs with a nice gentleman. Probably with clothes on, at least to start with. But if chemistry is there... who knows?
• Who is single or in an open relationship. I'm hoping to avoid the stress of doing any of this in secrecy. My wife will be very pleased to chat with you by phone (perhaps even meet for coffee) so you'll know there's no secrecy on our side. We're doing this honestly.
• Age: 30 to 130. Experience is sexy!
• Who is, as they say these days, "hwp" (i.e. fairly height-weight proportional).
• Will happily exchange a picture or two. I'll go first!!

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