I've been here before and had some good times with nice people, and met some real creeps. I don't meet until I have had a few chats or conversations and insist the first meet be in a very public place with lots of other people around. I'm bisexual and occasionally enjoy couples. If you send pics, at least include your face. I only share pics after I get comfortable and I never put myself on live cam. Those are the basics.

My Ideal Person I like casual friendships that grow. I've been married and not looking for a husband or a permanent partner. Conversation is a must but not always about you. I am attracted to men with manners and women who I can connect with. Sex is a possibility but not a necessity, and it won't happen on the first meeting.

I don't like drunks and druggies, confederate flags, leather, loudmouths and people who brag about their sexual abilities. Tasteful and artistic tattoos are fine, but excessive ink is a turnoff. I am an educated and professional lady and am attracted to the same in men and women. Rough sex is not in my playbook as I expect to be respected at all times.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Wherever the mood overwhelms.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really. I think they're overrated.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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