Retired - Looking for daytime meetings. Can very rarely host. Must be flexable. Absolute discretion required and given. 61-year old white married big bear. I can be bi in the right situation. I'm looking to establish some LONG TERM local friendships (male, female and couples) more in line with my "moral philosophy" of "friends with benefits". Meaning that individuals that understand having a sexual relationship with one individual through one's life may NOT be natural. Also, I'd like to establish local friendships for doing things out of the bedroom. I want people that “understand” the lifestyle where I can be comfortable around. I have a lot of friends but none of them are into scene.”Some of these friendships go back over 55 years and I still get that feeling that I just don't quite fit in at least in my mind anyway. Let's see, what can I say about myself - hmmmmm? Well, first off I'm a "big boy" - as they say - "a per of size". I'm 5 feet 10 inches. However, I'm NOT a "slovenly" per of size - I have decent muscle tone. Additionally, I'm actually in great health. I have NO health problems other than my weight. Also, I don’t look my 61 years and normally get “pegged” in my mid to late 40’s or early 50s. No STD's - I'm checked regularly throughout the year for ALL of them – including HIV. I have a great sense of humor - a fairly sarcastic one at times that can get me in trouble. I speak my mind - another "double edged sword" - LOL! I'm well educated and was professionally employed. Am I "happily married"? Let’s just say that for the most part I’m currently content - except in one area. (Hint – I’'m on this website.) (Photos to be provided upon request.)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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